{"id":1,"date":"2019-03-07T18:34:03","date_gmt":"2019-03-07T18:34:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stepforwardcoaching.org\/?p=1"},"modified":"2025-10-30T12:30:53","modified_gmt":"2025-10-30T12:30:53","slug":"how-great-coaches-ask-listen-and-empathize","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stepforwardcoaching.org\/pt\/how-great-coaches-ask-listen-and-empathize\/","title":{"rendered":"How great coaches ask, listen and empathize."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Historically, leaders achieved their position by virtue of experience on the job and in-depth knowledge. They were expected to have answers and to readily provide them when employees were unsure about what to do or how to do it. The leader was the person who knew the most, and that was the basis of their authority.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Leaders today still have to understand their business thoroughly, but it\u2019s unrealistic and ill-advised to expect them to have all the answers. Organizations are simply too complex for leaders to govern on that basis. One way for leaders to adjust to this shift is to adopt a new role: that of coach. By using coaching methods and techniques in the right situations, leaders can still be effective without knowing all the answers and without telling employees what to do.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Coaching is about connecting with people, inspiring them to do their best, and helping them to grow. It\u2019s also about challenging people to come up with the answers they require on their own. Coaching is far from an exact science, and all leaders have to develop their own style, but we can break down the process into practices that any manager will need to explore and understand. 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